The St. Josemaria Institute has partnered with iPray with Gospel to bring the popular daily Gospel reflections to life on our podcast. Now you can read and/or listen to the daily reflections during your time of prayer! iPray with the Gospel is especially helpful for those who want to use the Gospel for their daily conversation with Jesus Christ. [ <a href='http://www.stjosemaria.org/ipray-third-sunday-of-easter'>Transcript</a> ] THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

iPray with the Gospel | Third Sunday 0f Easter

On today’s podcast, we are joined by social media expert, Katie Hinderer. Katie shares her knowledge of social media platforms and using them well in order to better help parents navigate the online world with their children. She highlights the specific virtues necessary for having a healthy balance of usage while also avoiding content that is negative.Katie’s experience and advice will help parents navigate the challenging realm of social media while encouraging their children to practice good virtues and not fall into comparison or isolation. You can learn more about Katie’s work by visiting her <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://rosebudsocial.com">website</a> <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://rosebudsocial.com">rosebudsocial.com</a> or find her <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/rosebudsocial/">instagram</a> at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/rosebudsocial/">@rosebudsocial</a>

S4 Ep. 20 - Training the Algorithm: Helping Your Children Navigate Social Media

In this meditation, Fr. Leo Austin reflects on the call to holiness and the deeply personal nature of each Christian’s vocation, using the image of a “tailored suit” to describe how God lovingly designs each person’s path. Drawing from the Gospel of Luke, he meditates on Peter’s confession of Christ as the Messiah, urging us to move beyond superficial or “AI-like” knowledge of Jesus toward a lived, personal encounter where Christ becomes truly the love of our lives. He emphasizes that discipleship requires the crucifixion of ego—an inner martyrdom of pride and self-centeredness—more challenging than external persecution, but essential for spiritual growth. Through examples from saints, particularly the witness of Cardinal Francis-Xavier Nguyen Van Thuan, who endured 13 years in a Vietnamese prison with unwavering faith. Fr. Leo highlights how purification, gratitude, and humility reveal Christ’s presence even in suffering. He warns against being distracted by self-absorption or worldly noise and encourages recognizing Christ’s closeness in prayer, the Eucharist, and daily life. Ultimately, he calls listeners to respond to Jesus’ question, “Who do you say that I am?” with a heartfelt declaration of love, gratitude, and surrender, seeing Jesus as our best friend and the center of our vocation, aided by the intercession of St. Josemaria and the Blessed Virgin Mary.

The Non-AI Jesus

Drawing inspiration from the Feast of St Andrew celebrated on November 30, the first day of the Novena to the Immaculate Conception, Fr. Peter Armenio shares a reflection on our role as witnesses to the love of Christ and participants in the work of evangelization. Following in the example of Mary, who put Christ first and journeyed alongside Him throughout her life, we too must place Christ at the center of our lives. Once we surrender ourselves to the will of the Father, we allow for His grace to work through us and attract others to the Gospel message. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

A Springboard of Love

Armed with a mirror, a pencil, and a liberating new book on personal style, any woman can look her best every day of the week. Mary Sheehan Warren's It's So You! takes women and their aspirations seriously, offering a radical new approach to fashion based on discovering and developing your personal style. You can put fashion in its place, making it a tool for your personal and professional growth, and save heaps of money at the same time. The woman with personal style can wink at the fashion world. Her clothes flatter her and boost her self-confidence because she knows the difference between style and fashion. It's So You! helps you think through your own fashion needs, to become a woman whose dignity and elegance command respect. Mary Warren demystifies the world of haute couture while teaching you to distinguish general fashion from individual style. With a light-hearted and easy tone, she encourages you to value your body as it is, rather than chasing after a glossy magazine image that has nothing to do with who you really are. Through a step-by-step process of self-analysis, you will articulate your personal style. Warren guides you through the key Fashion Moments of Truth and explains the elements of style body type, palette, wardrobe planning, accessories with well-organized explanations, instructive charts and illustrations, friendly anecdotes, and answers to frequently-asked questions. The result is a fool-proof Style Profile to take you through every season and situation. And you'll have the cleanest closet of your life. True success in personal style is not self-serving. The legacy of style that you leave to your daughters and friends will inspire them to look and feel their best.

It's So You

Today's spiritual reading comes from our best-selling author, Fr. Jacques Philippe's book Fire and Light: Learning to Receive the Gift of God.

When I Am Weak, Then I Am Strong - Fire and Light

A meditation preached by Fr. Eric Nicolai at Lyncroft Centre in Toronto, on December 18, 2022. Matthew relates it exclusively from the perspective of Saint Joseph, who as a descendant of David represents the link between the figure of Jesus and the Davidic promise. The angel appears to him in a dream, and he was able to discern God's will.
Music: O Holy Night by Christmas choir.
Thumbnail: The Dream of Saint Joseph by Anton Raphael Mengs (1728-1779) Vienna Museum.
For more meditations, check my channel:
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Joseph's Dream and Our Discernment

In a time when being Catholic in Japan could cost you everything, ten-year-old Louis Ibaraki has more questions than answers. Orphaned, proud, and struggling to trust, Louis is thrown into a world of strange Latin prayers, secret Masses, and quiet heroism. Then he meets Maxium Tayeka—a swordsmith's son with a steady heart and a quiet strength—and everything begins to change. 
 As the two grow in faith and friendship, so does the danger around them. When Japan's rulers turn against the Church, Louis and Maximus must decide what they believe—and how far they are willing to go to stand for it. 
 Based on the true story of St. Louis Ibaraki, the youngest of the Twenty-Six Martyrs of Nagasaki, A Boy-Sized Cross is a gripping historical novel of courage, sacrifice, and the surprising power of childlike faith. 
 This is not just a story about dying for Christ. It's a story about living for him—even when the world tells you not to.

A Boy-Sized Cross

In this episode, Ashton Ellis discusses sobriety and why it is critically important for dads to practice.


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Episode 17: Sobriety

Doug discusses how married people are living their best lives and how married women are increasingly the happiest women. &nbsp; Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Denise - My boyfriend has stopped talking to other women but he has a friend who is a woman. She is married but he doesn't want to hurt the friendship. It bothers me. (10:34)</li> <li>Dana - It seems like Catholicism encourages marriage when Paul advises against it. Why? (21:00)</li> <li>Rita - I am in a relationship with a man after being widowed. I want to get married but he won&rsquo;t move forward with it. Should we go to therapy? (25:49)</li> <li>Adela - I have seen two instances where the men have left their fianc&eacute;s for their best friends. (30:24)</li> <li>Ann - I know a man who adopted some children and now has a problem with them and doesn&rsquo;t want to live with them. (35:35)</li> <li>Regina - the context of Paul&rsquo;s writing is that Paul believed that the second coming would be within the year or two so it wasn&rsquo;t worth having kids because we have so little time. (42:27)</li> <li>Danielle - I am married and we are both Catholic and I am still learning about the faith and he has abused me so I am asking about a divorce. He wants to go to therapy. What do I do? (44:17)</li> </ul>

Marriage Unhindered Lightning Round

With all the Christmas cards we’ve received, and the emails, and our own nativity scene, it is easy for us to imagine what happened that evening, and to see the warm glow of the child giving off divine light, he is the light of the world, amidst that dark and damp and musty place for animals. Mary and Joseph are warmed by the glow too.
Yet there is a tinge of reproach in John's description. John says it at the very beginning of the account of the incarnation itself. “He came to his own people, and his own did not receive him.” (Jn 1, 11).
Music: Die Schonsten Deutsche Weihnachtslieder, begins with Holy Night. @christmasworldbyzyxmusic3882
Thumbnail: Adoration of the Shepherds by Jean Baptiste Marie Pierre (1714-1789). Detroit Institute of Art. @christmasworldbyzyxmusic3882

His Own Received him Not

Written in the same style and spirit as the classic best-seller The Faith Explained by Leo Trese, The Faith Explained Today by Joe Babendreier offers an explanation of the faith that is easily accessible to modern readers, especially students and young adults. This Christian faith book is in six parts and covers the full spectrum of Church teaching over the last 2,000 years. These parts include: 

•What Christians Believe
•How God Reveals
•Morality
•The Way Christians Worship
•The Human Person
•Prayer

 Complete with review questions at the end of each chapter and frequent use of writings from Sacred Scripture, the saints, spiritual writers, and the Magisterium, this book, The Faith Explained Today will help you understand what God revealed through Jesus Christ, as the Church has believed it, preserved it, and treasured it from the beginning.

The Faith Explained Today

Fr. Eric Nicolai preached this meditation on December 8th, 2025 at Lyncroft Centrre in Toronto. It has been worthwhile to prepare this solemnity because it tells us something hopeful about God’s plan of salvation, his desire for our redemption. He could count on this woman, not as a mere instrument, but as a free and active cooperator that was beautifully prepared and primed for the great work of salvation.We say she is immaculate, because she is without macula, without stain. The fathers of the Church teased out the Eve-Mary parallel: Mary was the new Eve.Music: relaxing-piano-music-248868Thumbnail: Bartolomé Esteban Murillo, The Immaculate Conception of Los Venerables (Soult Madonna), 1660–65, oil on canvas, (Museo Nacional del Prado)

The Immaculate Conception was part of Mary's Vocation

What does it truly mean to live a life defined by service? Fr. Leo Austin explores how the personality of Jesus—most perfectly revealed when He washed His disciples’ feet—embodies self-giving love as the core of Christian identity. Fr. Leo connects this Gospel moment to modern life, emphasizing that true service is not for recognition or self-gratification but a sincere outpouring of the heart. Through vivid imagery—like a father joyfully playing with his daughter—the meditation illustrates that love and holiness are found in small, humble acts of generosity. Ultimately, it’s a call to shape one’s personality around selfless love, echoing Jesus, Mary, and Joseph in giving one’s whole heart to God and others.

The Chubby Dad and The Vocation To Service

Doug discusses how our attachment styles shape our marriages and how the desire for connection can sometimes leave us feeling lonelier when those needs go unmet. He explains how the way we were raised influences how we love and impacts our relationship with our spouse. &nbsp; Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Jane &ndash; My daughter and her boyfriend are having issues but are talking about marriage. How much should I be involved? (46:05)</li> </ul> &nbsp; Resources: &nbsp; Primal loss - PDF <a href="https://www.leilamiller.net/primallosspdf">https://www.leilamiller.net/primallosspdf</a> &nbsp; Marriage Unhindered <a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a> &nbsp; Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle <a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a> &nbsp; Happy Marriage for Life &ndash; Marriage Decrement <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

Attachment Styles: From Cradle to Couple

Are you unsure if your child has autism? Today, Monica Hinderer joins Doug to discuss how to raise children with autism? They share statistics that point to the increase in autism diagnosis and the contributing factors. Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Mary - I have a child diagnosed with autism. Intervention does work and she's in college now. She was diagnosed at 4 years old. (20:23)</li> <li>Sally - I have a child with autism and I wonder how I can help him navigate his relationship with God. (28:20)</li> <li>Frank - I have a son with Asperger&rsquo;s. As he got older he didn't want to go to Church. I took him to a neighbor's house, and he realized we were leaving him, and then he wanted to go. (36:41)</li> <li>Addison - I have a 6-year-old diagnosed with autism. Moms out there need to advocate for their child. When my son was was diagnosed, my husband and I couldn't stop crying, but he's changed the way we view life. (41:42)</li> <li>Barbara - I have an autistic granddaughter who is 29 years old. She had bad counselors to begin with. She would love to have a counselor who is autistic. (46:20)</li> </ul>

Raising children with autism

A meditation preached by Fr. Eric Nicolai on a day of recollection in Ernescliff College on May 11, 2025.I saw photos of Pope Leo XIV visiting Santa Maria Maggiore, praying in front of the Icon of Our Lady, Mother of God. She is showing us the child. She is showing us her son during the month of May when we have recourse to her.We can ask him to stir up the fire of our faith. Put little twigs and branches into the fire. The best twigs to get that faith raging is the devotion to our mother, as mother.It may be small now, but little aspirations, glances at images of our Lady are there to awaken something within us. Josemaria would as to “Stir up that fire of faith. Christ is not a figure that has passed. He is not a memory that is lost in history.” Mary seems to stir up devotion in us. She awakens our faith and makes us strong. Music: Michael Lee of Toronto.Thumbnail: Icon of Mary in Santa Maria Maggiore, Rome.

Mary Protects us from Being Gloomy Saints

Emily Jaminet joins Doug discussing the importance of rooting your marriage in the Sacred Heart. &nbsp; &nbsp; Resources: &nbsp; Emily Jaminet <a href="https://www.emilyjaminet.com/">https://www.emilyjaminet.com/</a> &nbsp; A Marriage Rooted in the Sacred Heart: Grace, Healing, and Hope <a href="https://www.emilyjaminet.com/a-marriage-rooted-in-the-sacred-heart-grace-healing-and-hope/">https://www.emilyjaminet.com/a-marriage-rooted-in-the-sacred-heart-grace-healing-and-hope/</a>

Keeping Jesus at the Center

Doug answers an email from a problematic marriage as the wife is lonely and unhappy and the husband is selfish.&nbsp; &nbsp;Doug &nbsp;explores how to survive and even thrive a Thanksgiving with relatives and family members who you don't like&nbsp;&nbsp; Listener Questions and Comments:&nbsp;Doug answers email: Schedule time to have this conversation and say "I'm lonely and that you're concerned about your change of heart regarding children and worried about her future".&nbsp; Also state your problem succinctly&nbsp; and less is more.&nbsp; (19:42) Barbara: I have had 2 annulments. I am at the point where I want to get married again. I am dating someone. What should do in order not to rush things? (31:24 )Break 2 What to do if wife lusts after another man at Church and have feelings of jealousy and driving a wedge between the couple.&nbsp; (38:29) Doug gives advice on how to keep things civil during Thanksgiving (39:47) What to do about daughter in law who doesn't want kids and hates the Church? (47:21)

Thanksgiving with Relatives You Don't Like

As we live the Advent season and anticipate the coming of Christ,, Fr. Luke shares some words for reflection on the Advent season and how we can prepare for this great event. Christ comes to be our model; to teach us how to love, and how to be truly human.

Ep. 24 Annual Christmas Reflection (with Fr. Luke)

Should you get involved to help your parents&rsquo; marriage? What can you do if your reversion to the faith is causing more tension in the marriage? Doug answers these questions and more. &nbsp; Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Hellen - My husband and I have been married for 42 years and the Holy Spirit finally got a hold of him and he just converted after all this time. (21:54)</li> <li>Jessica - I also witnessed abuse of my father on my mother and we spoke up after he did something. We all gathered up the courage and told him no. He never hurt her again. (36:42)</li> </ul>

Breaking Cycles of Verbal Abuse

Monica Hinderer joins Doug to continue their discussion on how to teach children the virtue of resilience. They address the idea of the &ldquo;perfect parent&rdquo; sharing the impact of acknowledging our imperfections as parents, learning from mistakes, and modeling resilience and accountability for our children. Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Maria - I'm a mother of a 2-year-old. The doctor said they want to do a test for autism because they saw some delays in development. How am I supposed to handle this? (17:30)</li> <li>Kelly - What do you think about kids who are high functioning special needs and need to be protected more, in regards to resilience? He's 19 years old. (23:56)</li> <li>Chris - I have a 6-year-old daughter who gets upset easily. What is the best way to handle this? (27:52)</li> <li>John - What helps with peace within the family is the Novena to the Seven Sorrows of the Blessed Mother. (35:11)</li> <li>Jeanie - I think that encouraging the 6-year-old to ignore her siblings is a bad idea. (38:51)</li> <li>Mary - How should I approach a situation when I see a child&rsquo;s caregiver raise them in an inappropriate way? (41:32)</li> </ul> Resources: Relevant Radio Dad&rsquo;s Pack <a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/merch/products/dads-pack">https://relevantradio.store/collections/merch/products/dads-pack</a> Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle <a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a>

Teaching your children resilience (Part 2)

Doug unpacks the qualities of a good husband. He stresses the importance of a wife&rsquo;s primary place in her husband&rsquo;s life, husbands being emotionally available, mutual love, and respect. Doug also unpacks the 5 intimacies in marriage. How do you honor your father and mother and still honor your wife and children? Doug answers this email question reminding the listener that it is important to protect your wife physically, emotionally and spiritually from everyone. This does not mean you disown your parents but that the wife comes first before everything else Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>David - What's the best way to find a good marriage therapist?</li> <li>Connie - My husband has to go to California once in a while for work. He doesn't want to tell me when he's coming back and now he hasn't talked to me in five days.</li> <li>Mario - My girlfriend lives with her parents and her son from a previous relationship. They're a higher priority than me and we all live together. What should I do?</li> </ul> &nbsp; Resources: &nbsp; Catholic Therapists <a href="https://www.catholictherapists.com/">https://www.catholictherapists.com/</a> &nbsp; Catholic Psychotherapy <a href="https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/">https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/</a> &nbsp; The Bible and Marriage: The Two Shall Become One Flesh <a href="https://stpaulcenter.com/product/the-bible-and-marriage-the-two-shall-become-one-flesh-a-catholic-biblical-theology-of-the-sacraments/">https://stpaulcenter.com/product/the-bible-and-marriage-the-two-shall-become-one-flesh-a-catholic-biblical-theology-of-the-sacraments/</a>

Qualities of a good husband

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The Sadness of Christ was the last book that St. Thomas More wrote in the Tower of London before he was executed for standing firm in his Catholic faith. In it, he explores the Gospel passages that depict the agony of Our Lord in the Garden of Gethsemane. He depicts Christ as a model of virtue in the face of suffering and persecution. And along the way, he includes valuable and eternally relevant reflections on prayer, courage, friendship, statesmanship, and more. Here is an excellent resource for Lent or anytime!
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The Sadness of Christ

As we begin a new season of Lent, Fr. Peter Armenio shares a reflection on the importance of connecting with the Lord through prayer, fasting and almsgiving. It is a season to look inward and assess what the Lord is asking us to deny, offer up, so that we can share in his self-emptying and experience the joy of everlasting life. St. Josemaria Escriva reminds us that “conversion is the task of a moment; sanctification is the work of a lifetime” (Christ is Passing By, no. 58). The Lenten season is an opportunity to begin again, to continue laying the foundation of your spiritual journey, and to grow in holiness in your everyday life. By accompanying Christ in the desert, we can put into practice the spiritual tools needed to become a saint in the world today. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

A Time of Penance, Purification & Conversion

Damon Owens joins Doug to discuss Communio and the work they are doing with bishops in California to strengthen marriages. &nbsp; &nbsp; Resources: Damon Owens <a href="https://flow.page/damonowens">https://flow.page/damonowens</a> &nbsp; Marriage Unhindered <a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a> &nbsp; Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle <a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a> &nbsp; Happy Marriage for Life <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

Preparing for and strengthening marriage

Doug continues his discussion on conflict in marriage. He shares what St. Thomas More can teach us about marriage. Callers weigh in with their questions and success stories from their marriages.

St. Thomas More and Conflict in Marriage

Doug reads a letter by Alice Von Hildebrand from her book&nbsp;By Love Refined. In this letter, Alice gives advice on deepening friendships. Doug also unpacks things you should know if you decide to go to marriage therapy. He discusses the importance of gratitude and how it helps keep the focus on the positive. RESOURCES: By Love Refined https://sophiainstitute.com/product/by-love-refined/?srsltid=AfmBOor69zErlUqf6RP4-3ZxPfKt8rMqVKFZpPQcjXBuSZBKh6q0taWX &nbsp; Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/ Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/ Catholic Therapists https://www.catholictherapists.com/ &nbsp;

Having an attitude of gratitude

A meditation by Fr. Eric Nicolai, preached in Lyncroft Centre in Toronto, October 26, 2025, on the parable of the Pharisee and the publican (Luke 18:9-14). Music: Stephen Lee of TorontoThumbnail: Rembrandt, Etching of St. Jerome kneeling in prayer, 1635. From artnet

Lord have Mercy on Me a Sinner

Doug explores how conspiracy theories can create division and distrust in marriage and how couples can stay grounded in truth. He also answers a question about dating again after the loss of a spouse. Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Jo &ndash; I am a widow who began dating again, but the relationship ended when he began discerning whether to remain single. Why would someone pull away after things were going well?</li> </ul> &nbsp; Resources: &nbsp; Marriage Unhindered <a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a> &nbsp; Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle <a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a> &nbsp; Happy Marriage for Life <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

Will Conspiracy Theory's Ruin a Marriage?

Marriage Therapist Doug Hinderer returns to the Fairest Love podcast to share 5 things every couple should discuss before they get married. This episode is perfect for those who have engaged children or even those recently <a href="http://married.You">married.You</a> can find Doug at: <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.comMarriage">https://www.happymarriageforlife.comMarriage</a> Discernment Course: <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/marriage-discernment">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/marriage-discernment</a>

Ep. 28 5 Things to Discuss Before Marriage with Doug Hinderer

A meditation preached at Lyncroft Centre in Toronto on December 20, 2024. 
With the scene of the annunciation to Mary, redemption has begun. But the last thing the angel mentioned was meant to show that the incarnation takes place within the larger context of the family, Mary’s family, but also Elizabeth's family. God decided that Elizabeth should bear a son. Mary would participate in this, to give support.
The unity of the members of a family - and, with more reason if they are children of God through Baptism - manifests the unity of God, his Creator: "The Christian family is a communion of persons, reflection and image of the communion of the Father and of the Son in the Holy Spirit”. (CCC 2207).
This is the time to contribute to family warmth. Provide affection and service. St. Josemaria often explained that the model of our family life is in the Holy Family of Nazareth. He liked so much to imagine the personal and close relationship that Jesus, Mary and Joseph had, that he said to his spiritual daughters and sons: "to this Family we belong."
Music: relaxing-piano-music-248868
Thumbnail: Thomas Kinkade HOMETOWN CHRISTMAS MEMORIES

Creating the Warmth of a Home

Dive into the importance of the particular examination in your daily struggle for holiness. As St. Josemaria Escriva said, "The general examination implies defense. The particular, attack. The first is your armor. The second, your sword."

The Particular Examination - In Conversation with God Volume 2

What should you do when your spouse won&rsquo;t quit drinking? How do you pass on the faith to your children when your spouse is resistant? &nbsp; Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Stephanie - My husband wants to stop drinking and my son doesn't believe that he will. I've seen my son cry about this. My son has prayed for his father. What should I do? (9:59)</li> <li>Jane - I have two teenage boys. Their dad and my husband is not practicing and they look up to him. What should I do? I go to daily mass. We've been married for twenty years. (28:09)</li> <li>Gregory - My ex-wife is a narcissist. How do I go about living the rest of my life knowing that and remaining in the faith? How do I overcome that? (42:16)</li> </ul>

Faith in a Divided Home

Dr. Stephanie Kafie joins Doug to discuss the health dangers of artificial contraception and the advantages of Natural Family Planning. &nbsp; Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Christina - Where does birth control come from? why was it invented? (21:20)</li> <li>Rita - I have been married for 25 years and use NFP. I am getting closer to menopause what are my options? (23:57)</li> <li>Liz - I used NFP to get pregnant. I had low progesterone and found out by using NFP and it fixed the problem so I could conceive. (37:18)</li> <li>Cecilia - I want to share how I taught my children about this. (41:57)</li> <li>Rhonda - I was given folic acid when my body really needed folate which is the natural version. (45:48)</li> </ul> &nbsp; Resources: &nbsp; Marquette Method <a href="https://www.marquettemethod.com/">https://www.marquettemethod.com/</a> &nbsp; Marquette Method of NFP: Getting Started Guide <a href="https://www.vitaefertility.com/what-is-the-marquette-method-of-nfp/">https://www.vitaefertility.com/what-is-the-marquette-method-of-nfp/</a> &nbsp; Totally Yours: The Catholic Natural Family Planning Handbook <a href="https://www.totallyyoursfamilymedicine.com/nfpbook">https://www.totallyyoursfamilymedicine.com/nfpbook</a>

Working with God’s design for our bodies

A meditation preached at Ernescliff College on the feast of the Transfiguration, August 6, 2024.
In the Old testament the prophet Daniel had a vision that foreshadowed the transfiguration: Thrones were set in place
and one of great age took his seat.
His robe was white as snow,
the hair of his head as pure as wool. (Daniel 7, 9-10). 
The Transfiguration scene can help us consider what Heaven will be like. In it, some men - Peter, John and James - have an anticipated vision of the glory of God.
Music: Abide With Me by Henry F. Lyte, 1847, internet archive: Fox Aeternum.
Thumbnail: Raphael, Transfiguration, 1520. Vatican Museum.

The Transfiguration: a Preview of the Preview

In this podcast, Msgr. Fred Dolan shares a reflection on the gift of mercy as seen through the Gospel of the woman caught in adultery (John 8:1-11). This Gospel passage leads us to reflect inward and ask ourselves: how quickly do we pass judgement on others without even realizing it? The main goal of Satan is to create division among people, whether it be a family, a church community or an entire society. The main antidote to this divisiveness and negativity is mercy. Mercy is God’s free gift to us as his children and it allows us to reunite with one another. Pope St. John Paul II explains that every human being is a neighbor to be loved. If we have to ask ourselves “who is my neighbor?”, then we are already setting limits and conditions. Instead, the question we should seek to ask is: “to whom should I become a neighbor?” We must love our neighbors as ourselves and show mercy to all those around us. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

The Gift of Mercy

<a href='https://stjosemaria.org/product/a-spiritual-retreat-on-the-temptations-of-christ/'>A Spiritual Retreat on the Temptations of Christ</a> invites you to journey with Christ through six key moments in which he encountered and resisted temptation. This retreat prompts us to look inward and assess the temptations we face in our daily life – in our profession, in our spiritual life, with family, among friends. As we look at the example of Christ, we come to understand the necessary virtues we need to overcome temptation and persevere in our journey toward heaven. <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/product/a-spiritual-retreat-on-the-temptations-of-christ/'>A Spiritual Retreat on the Temptations of Christ</a> is ideal for anyone seeking to take 1 - 2 days from daily life to spend quiet time in prayer and reflection. This retreat is a collection of seven meditations preached by Fr. Javier del Castillo, priest of the Prelature of Opus Dei and Vice President of the St. Josemaria Institute.  Originally given to a group of educators in February 2020, the themes addressed in this retreat are applicable for those in any profession. Included with this retreat is a guide to help you reflect upon the temptations you encounter each day and identify how you can overcome them with the grace of God. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

Part One: Temptation & Divine Filiation

We had the opportunity to interview host of the Seeking Excellence podcast, Nathan Crankfield. Nathan shares his views on masculinity, what it means to be a man, the struggles men face in society, the staggering statistics about the decline in men pursuing marriage and purpose, and the steps men can take to embrace their identity. Follow Nathan on Instagram @nathancrankfield and <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="c-link" href="https://www.youtube.com/@seekingexcellence_">Youtube</a> or listen to his podcast, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="c-link" href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/seekingexcellence/support">Seeking Excellence</a>.

S4 Ep. 24 - What it Means to Be a Man

Groucho Marx in the early silent films would say that to have a happy life, &nbsp;we must have good humour have a bad memory. Of course we have good humour, but I don’t agree that we should have a bad memory.
We have to have good humour and good memory, but selective memory for all the good in life. This was the purpose of the transfiguration, in which Jesus showed the apostle the luminosity of the good. It was so that they should remember the good, when things were bad and dark. A meditation preached by Fr. Eric Nicolai in Lyncroft centre in Toronto on March 9, 2023.
Music: Chiquinha Gonzaga composer, Lua Branca, arranged for guitar by Guitar Bert Alink.
Thumbnail: Raphael Sanzio, Transfiguration 1520, Pinacoteca Vaticana.

Having a Good Memory for all the Good in Life

Monica Hinderer joins Doug to help parents respond to the Minnesota mass shooting while also facing tough family struggles, including children wrestling with gender identity, strained relationships, and fear after violence. Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Priya &ndash; I fear families may leave this parish after the shooting, and that the priest could lose parishioners. (08:55)</li> <li>David &ndash; My autistic son wants to become female, and it has been deeply traumatic for my wife and me. (20:50)</li> <li>Mary &ndash; My daughter identifies as they/them, eloped, and is now planning a ceremony. Should I go, even though I regret saying yes? (36:09)</li> <li>Amelia &ndash; Why do we have to tiptoe around calling the shooter what he is instead of making excuses for him? (43:25)</li> </ul> Resources:&nbsp; Marriage Unhindered <a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a> &nbsp; Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle <a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a> &nbsp; Happy Marriage for Life <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

Explaining Church Shootings to Children

Every now and then as the Lord permits, he brings into existence men and women who embody joy not only beneath the surface, but as the essence of their being and their defining trait. When we think of these men and women, we cannot distinguish that joy as separate from who they are. Joy, nourished by the wellspring of Christian love, is their embodiment, their modus operandi, the indelible sign that the spirit of the Lord is upon them.
 Philip Neri was one of these men.
 Love and joy were as much an inextricable part of his being as hydrogen and oxygen are to water.
 These words from Coached by Philip Neri capture the essence of this patron saint of joy. St. Philip's infectious spirit, says Rob Marco, is the "prescriptive balm" that we are in most dire need of today.
 Follow the lessons of St. Philip Neri as he coaches us, through example, to be imbued with Christian joy, a most attractive and desirable attribute, that draws us, and those around us, nearer to Christ.

Coached by Philip Neri

Ana Gonzalo was a career official of the European Union and oversaw EU social projects in many parts of the world. Ana was deeply committed to her Catholic faith, but knew how to appreciate the virtues of the people of other religions her work put her in contact with.
Resource to learn more about Ana Gonzalo:
<ul>
 <li>Gonzalo Castellano, Blanca. Una prolongada carta de familia. Mi hermana Ana—Un testimonio de coraje en las instituciones europeas. Madrid: Ediciones de Buena Tinta, 2013.</li>
</ul>
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You can buy the book "Encounters: Finding God in All Walks of Life" from <a href="https://scepterpublishers.org/products/encounters" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠Scepter Publishers⁠⁠⁠</a> or on <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/159417511X" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠</a>.

Ana Gonzalo: Eurocrat

Are you looking for a weekend getaway that can bring you closer to your spouse? Pete and Carol Tomaselli join Doug to share their experience of healing through Retrouvaille, a marriage help program for struggling couples. They talk about the three legs of the Retrouvaille stool and share how the support system in Retrouvaille helps save marriages.   Resource mentioned: Retrouvaille Website: <a href="https://helpourmarriage.org/">https://helpourmarriage.org/</a>

Getting away to heal your marriage

Have you ever considered that each encounter with Jesus in the Gospels is an invitation for you personally?Joe Billmeier guides readers through ten powerful Gospel scenes where ordinary people meet Jesus—and are never the same again. From Bartimaeus the blind beggar who dared to cry out, to Zacchaeus who climbed a sycamore tree, to Simon of Cyrene unexpectedly pressed into carrying the Cross, each story reveals the lasting transformation that comes from meeting Christ face-to-face.

Interview with Joe Billmeier, author of The 10th Hour

How do we go about living out Jesus Christ’s radical call to love, even loving one’s enemies? Fr. Luke Mata reflects on how early Christians transformed the Roman Empire through acts of forgiveness, unity, and selfless charity, calling this a true “revolution of love.” Drawing on scripture (especially Matthew 5) and Church teachings, the reflection emphasizes that such love is humanly impossible without faith and the Eucharist, which serve as the source and sustenance of divine love. As Christians, we are challenged to forgive others, love those who are difficult, and embody Christ’s compassion in daily life — continuing the same revolution that began with Jesus on the cross.

A Revolution Of Love

Doug unpacks what spiritual healing looks like when childhood trauma warps your view of God. He shares an article from Jaimie Eckert who gives tips for healing including: recognizing that God is not your past, healing past wounds through biblical meditation, forging healing connections in the Body of Christ, and seeing God as He is. Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Dominic - I'm getting married this year. My fianc&eacute; and I have both experienced childhood trauma and we are having issues communicating about it. I lived in an abusive household, and she was raised by a single mother.</li> </ul> Resources: When Trauma Warps Your View of God&mdash;And How to Heal <a href="https://catholicexchange.com/when-trauma-warps-your-view-of-god-and-how-to-heal/">https://catholicexchange.com/when-trauma-warps-your-view-of-god-and-how-to-heal/</a>

When trauma warps your view of God

What is a Narcissist? How do you love a narcissist? Doug unpacks 6 ways you can survive being married to a narcissist. <ol> <li>Do not take it personally. Narcissists do not live in reality.</li> <li>Don’t argue with a narcissist.</li> <li>Know yourself. Your best defense is a strong sense of self confidence.</li> <li>Let go from your need for approval.</li> <li>Look for support elsewhere. Look for encouragement from friends and at church</li> <li>Focus on the good you can find in the narcissist.</li> </ol>

Living with a Narcissist

In this episode of The Dad Project, Nathan Stanley discusses ways dads can be encouraging to our children.

Episode 11: Encouragement

Kathy Burkes and Fr. John McNamara join Doug to discuss Project Rachel and post abortion healing. &nbsp; <ul> <li>Julia - So many people pushed me to get an abortion when I was 22 and I didn&rsquo;t go through with it. I&rsquo;m so glad I didn&rsquo;t. (18:12)</li> <li>Walt - When we separate the word &lsquo;mother&rsquo; from the term 'woman who had an abortion' we go nowhere. People who have abortions are still mothers. (33:26)</li> <li>Deedee - I had an abortion and was absolved. Is there anything else I need to do? (36:32)</li> <li>Teri - We need to do penance for the reparation of the severity of the sin. Can you talk about that? (43:16)</li> </ul> &nbsp; Resources: Project Rachel Help Line 815-387-3379&nbsp; Email LiFE@RockfordDiocese.org

Healing the Wound of Abortion

Doug continues his discussion on how to find a good spouse. What are the 4 things to look out for when choosing your future life partner?     Christian Courtship in An Oversexed World - by Rev. Thomas G Morrow <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Christian-Courtship-Oversexed-World-Revised-dp-0988922207/dp/0988922207/ref=dp_ob_image_bk">https://www.amazon.com/Christian-Courtship-Oversexed-World-Revised-dp-0988922207/dp/0988922207/ref=dp_ob_image_bk</a>

How to Find the Right Spouse pt 2

Doug shares a case study from Impossible Marriages Redeemed by Leila Miller. What do you do when you have a toxic family member influencing the family? In what cases is separation helpful? Doug Answers these questions and more. Plus: The Friday afternoon rant!

Things a Therapist Wants You to Know

Since St. Peter of Alcantara (1499–1562) wrote this treatise in 1556 to help people prepare their lives for eternity, readers need not be reminded that sin and eternity hasn't changed in the last 450 years. St. Peter offers less a practical guide on prayer and meditation than a path to deepening and enriching one's interior life in order to prepare the soul for its fi nal end. The author does so by providing a series of considerations on the elements of the spiritual life, on the Sacred Passion, and on ways to improve piety (which the author calls "devotion") and to overcome the difficulties and temptations in its achievement. This book was highly recommended by other contemporary saints including St. Teresa of Avila, whom the author appeared to upon his death. This book is a modernized edition of an English translation from the late 1920s.

On Prayer and Meditation

Visions of Purgatory: A Private Revelation&nbsp;offers a surprisingly sober and clear account of purgatory that offers more consolation than fear before this great mystery of God&rsquo;s mercy. Translated from French, the text was written in the latter half of the twentieth century by an anonymous author and contains a private revelation of purgatory with annotations from the Magisterium of the Church and the teachings of the saints, above all St. Thomas Aquinas.
It is organized into three parts: the first part explains the role of private revelations and how to gain profit from them; the second part contains doctrinal teachings that form a kind of treatise on purgatory; the third and final part is dedicated to revelations of souls in purgatory. Details concerning the life of the author have been omitted in order to maintain the author&rsquo;s anonymity.

Visions of Purgatory (audiobook)

Is it healthy to never argue with your spouse? What should you do if you discover your father is having an affair? Doug answers these questions and more. &nbsp; Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Samantha - My friend wants to get married but the guy is not Catholic or a US citizen. What's good advice for my friend without being a know-it-all? (18:14)</li> <li>Stefano - How do you deal with lust in a dating relationship when your partner wants to take things too far. (29:30)</li> <li>Phillip - Response to Stefano: Unless she wants to convert there are so many issues waiting to happen. It&rsquo;s more than just a sexual problem. (42:36)</li> </ul> &nbsp; Resources: &nbsp; Marriage Unhindered <a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a> &nbsp; Happy Marriage for Life <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

What happens if you never argue?

On August 6th, the Church celebrates the Feast of the Transfiguration of the Lord. On today&apos;s podcast, we listen and reflect on the “background” and meaning of the Transfiguration, and how contemplating the scene of the Transfiguration continues to transform us today: — The Transfiguration of Jesus encourages us in our commitment to discipleship. — When we commit to protracted prayer—deep, silent, concentrated—we can see God through the eyes of our soul and heart. — The Transfiguration helped the apostles to trust in the Cross—the raw materials that make up our crosses—and to believe that there is no such thing as failure when we follow Christ. — Contemplating this scene and Jesus’ words (Mk 9:2-10), we begin to see Him, to take on His capacity for self-giving love, and we become more empowered to give of ourselves with the heart of Jesus. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

The Transfiguration of the Lord

How do you correct your children without criticizing them? Monica Hinderer joins Doug discussing how constant criticism harms your children and how focusing on your child&rsquo;s unique strengths is part of the solution to raising confident children. &nbsp; Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Len - You guys do a great job. What made Monica want to go into her dad&rsquo;s profession? (18:16)</li> <li>Bob - On low self-esteem: I think low self-esteem is a virtue. It seems like the best people have had low self-esteem. (20:48)</li> <li>Peter - I'm a parent of four. When my three little girls were young, a lady told me 'don't be too hard on them because if so, they'll jump into another man&rsquo;s arms too early&rsquo;. (25:54)</li> <li>Marie - I have a son who is 49 years old. He's very adamantly opposed to me and is angry with me. I'm not sure why. (36:44)</li> <li>Sharon - My father was very critical and he was an alcoholic, even though he was very well-achieved. (43:06)</li> <li>Deedee - What if that child grew up to be an overachiever, after growing up in an overly critical home? (48:25)</li> </ul> &nbsp; Resources: Catholic Therapists <a href="https://catholictherapists.com/">https://catholictherapists.com/</a> &nbsp; Catholic Psychotherapy <a href="https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/">https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/</a> &nbsp; Marriage Unhindered <a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a> &nbsp; Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle <a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a> &nbsp; Happy Marriage for Life <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a> &nbsp; Negative outcomes of criticism &nbsp; <ol> <li>Low self esteem</li> <li>Perfectionism</li> <li>Negative self-talk</li> <li>Difficulty accepting compliments</li> <li>Tendency towards being hypercritical</li> <li>Becoming hyper defensive</li> <li>Becoming people pleasers</li> <li>Becoming too self-reliant</li> <li>Social anxiety</li> <li>Comparing&nbsp;</li> <li>Constant apology</li> </ol>

Your child’s unique strengths

Did you grow up in a critical home? Monica Hinderer joins Doug to discuss how criticism can affect children even into adulthood and how to talk to your children, in a loving way, when you need to correct them.

Criticism in Childhood

Doug shares instances ranging from premarital sex to marital infidelity and asks listeners to call in and share the advice they would give in these situations. Callers weigh in, and Doug gives his advice on how to better communicate in marriage and unpacks the power of forgiveness and regular confession. &nbsp; Resources: &nbsp; Marriage Unhindered <a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a> &nbsp; Happy Marriage for Life <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a> &nbsp; Catholic Therapists <a href="https://www.catholictherapists.com/">https://www.catholictherapists.com/</a>

Who wants to be a therapist?

Doug discusses an email from a woman concerned that her husband works excessively and is pressuring her to take on full-time work as well. She worries this dynamic is harming their marriage and family life. Doug emphasizes the importance of being present for one&rsquo;s spouse and children and making family a top priority. &nbsp; Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Josephina - My husband and I are one of the couples who work a lot. I am comparing myself to the lady from the email but at the same time I am also a workaholic sometimes. (19:38)</li> <li>Matt - I work 12-15 hours a day and I am in a courtship right now. I find that if you really love them that sacrifice shouldn&rsquo;t take that much to make it happen. I want to also say that waiting till marriage is so worth it. (23:39)</li> <li>Richard - My son wants to get married and the issue we come across is his girlfriend is Catholic but she is not practicing. (28:00)</li> <li>Fernando - At what point is doing everything for her happiness not ok if I start suffering? (38:57)</li> <li>Rex - I worked in oil and I was a workaholic. You are touching on a lot of issues I went through. If I could go back, I would spend more time with the family. (45:00)</li> </ul>

Prioritizing Family Over Career

Forgiving is no easy task: in fact, it may be the most difficult endeavor one can undertake. St. Josemaría Escrivá, the founder of Opus Dei, said, "I didn't need to learn how to forgive, because God has taught me how to love." Still, even this saint struggled with the trying task of forgiving. This collection of anecdotes from his life explores his experiences in offering and accepting forgiveness. 
 Life as a priest in the midst of the violent Spanish Civil War offered St. Josemaría countless opportunities to practice forgiveness. Owing to an attitude of prayer, mortification, and total confidence in God, he was as immediate and resolute in forgiving in dramatic situations as he was in the ordinary circumstances of everyday life. He knew when a situation necessitated silence, and was always prompt in offering an apology when he found himself in the wrong. Readers will find themselves equally amazed and humbled by the gentle charity that contributed to Josemaría's sainthood. 
 In addition to anecdotes from St. Josemaría Escrivá's life, this powerful introduction to forgiveness includes a biography of St. Josemaría, an explanation of the message of Opus Dei, excerpts from Pope John Paul II at the canonization of St. Josemaría and Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger (later Pope Benedict XVI) at the beatification of Josemaría Escrivá, as well as resources for further information in print and online.

A Man Who Knew How to Forgive

Have you and your spouse ever disagreed about money? Today, Doug is joined by Kevin Smith to discuss practical money management strategies. Kevin shares tips for creating and sticking to a budget, and explains the difference between good debt and bad debt&mdash;and how understanding that distinction can help you make smarter financial decisions. &nbsp; Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Deedee - My daughter recently graduated and she has federal loans but she can&rsquo;t find a job. If she has to file for bankruptcy, how does this impact the federal loan? (45:08)</li> </ul> &nbsp; Resources: Kevin Smith <a href="https://ethoslogosinvestments.com/">https://ethoslogosinvestments.com/</a>

Money Management in Marriage

Doug reads a letter by Alice Von Hildebrand from her book: By Love Refined. In this letter, Alice shares the importance of emotional safety and protecting your spouse in marriage. Doug unpacks 4 behaviors that erode trust and 3 behaviors that nurture trust in marriage. Listener questions and comments: &middot;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; How can I balance being positive about a situation when my husband doesn't want to see the flip side? &middot;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; What&rsquo;s the difference between detraction and getting family support or help? &middot;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; In divorce court, they force you to reveal things that you might not want to or are trying to be charitable about so that they can better represent you and get a better deal. &middot;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Is it bad to share my husband&rsquo;s mental health struggles with my son&rsquo;s teacher? &middot;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; My husband had an affair. He said they were just talking but I saw the texts. He told me he saw a priest but kept texting her anyway. He is pretending that nothing happened. What should I do? &nbsp; Resources: &nbsp; Marriage Unhindered <a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a> &nbsp; Happy Marriage for Life <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a> &nbsp; Catholic Therapists <a href="https://www.catholictherapists.com/">https://www.catholictherapists.com/</a> &nbsp; By Love Refined: Letters to a Young Bride <a href="https://sophiainstitute.com/product/by-love-refined/?srsltid=AfmBOorUgJaOCIHW8hoPqGRrxDbbFqkhbw_d24v5fEaakO8PoW5a_pcR">https://sophiainstitute.com/product/by-love-refined/?srsltid=AfmBOorUgJaOCIHW8hoPqGRrxDbbFqkhbw_d24v5fEaakO8PoW5a_pcR</a>

Emotional safety in marriage

In our podcast of the week, Fr. Donncha O hAodha reflects on the title of Our Lady, Queen of Peace, on this anniversary of the Dedication of the Prelatic Church of Opus Dei (May 2). The church was built by St. Josemaria Escriva as the central church of Opus Dei, the heart of the Prelature, in Rome. And he dedicated it to Our Lady of Peace.Like all of Our Lady’s titles, “Queen of Peace” stems from her motherhood, from being the Mother of Jesus Christ who is our peace. “For he is our peace… he came and preached peace to you who were far off and peace to those who were near” (Ephesians 2:14,17). Therefore, as Fr. Donncha explains, in the image and title “Queen of Peace,” we see how she is “full of joy and full of peace that comes from redemption, from salvation, from Our Lord’s cross, death, and resurrection. And that’s the peace that can never ever be taken away. And that’s also our peace.&quot; “In the advocation of Mary, Queen of Peace, we read, we sense, we feel, we understand, all the joy of Redemption because Christ is our peace.” It is suitable, therefore, that title of the church designated by St. Josemaria would be Our Lady, Queen of Peace, because the Church is the place of peace and reconciliation—“where the peace of Our Lord, merited for us on the Cross, pours forth.” <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Our-Lady-Queen-of-Peace.pdf'>View Transcript</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/podcast/'>Visit Show Page</a> THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

Our Lady, Queen of Peace

Recognizing the strong and gentle fatherhood which our Heavenly Father bestows on us lovingly and daily indefinitely changes the scope of our spiritual lives. Amidst the crisis of fatherhood in today's society, it is imperative, more than ever, that all men—especially priests—be images of this unfalteringly generous fatherhood of God. 
What does true fatherhood consist of? How can true fatherhood help a person gain access to the freedom found through the knowledge of his or her identity as a child of God? 
While answering these questions, Fr. Jacques also presents the spiritual path which allows a priest to guard himself against possible shortcomings and ambiguities as he strives to live out his priestly fatherhood, the gift received by him in ordination. 
Priestly Fatherhood: Treasure in Earthen Vessels will not only be of interest to priests, but will also help all those who are called to exercise a certain paternity in the Church or in society:  fathers of families, spiritual fathers, educators, and leaders.

Priestly Fatherhood: Treasure in Earthen Vessels

In this podcast, Fr. Peter Armenio guides us to reflect upon the importance of loving God, being united to Him, and being a light in the world that extends and radiates His love to others. But how does God expect us to do this in our lives? Drawing upon the Gospel story of the Rich Young Man, Fr. Peter points out the “three steps” that Jesus shares with the young man to be happy and attain eternal life: 1) make God the center of your life because only God is good and can satisfy you; 2) live the commandments to gain the freedom to own yourself; 3) make a self-gift of yourself to Christ who is number one in your life.To be totally centered on Christ, like all of the saints, is to begin to experience the joy of eternal life here on earth. But, it&apos;s not going to work and we will always go away sad if we don&apos;t make the decision to give ourselves completely to Christ and become light and joy in the world. In this podcast, you will also hear how: <ul><li>A talented college girl who left the Church found her way back to the Eucharist through the joyful witness of her Catholic friends.</li><li>Why a modern-day “rich young man” was not happy even though he had everything a boy his age would want.</li><li>Jesus expects us to interact with the world in order to be its salt and light and preach to every creature (and it’s what being Catholic is all about).</li><li>The decision to be totally centered on Christ will ultimately make us join the ranks of the saints.</li></ul><a href='https://stjosemaria.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Becoming-a-Light-of-the-World.pdf'>View Transcript</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/podcast/'>Visit Show Page</a> THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

Becoming a Light of the World

From 2000 to 2013 Cardinal Jorge Mario Bergoglio of Buenos Aires and Msgr. Mariano Fazio, regional vicar of Opus Dei, were good friends and frequent collaborators in their native Argentina. Now the Cardinal is known to the whole world as Pope Francis. In Pope Francis: Keys to His Thought, Monsignor Fazio paints a close-up portrait of his old friend that sheds revealing light on his deep spirituality and the intense pastoral commitment that motivates this remarkable man in his leadership of the Catholic Church. 
 The book examines major themes in the thought of Pope Francis--the centrality of evangelization, the need to reach out to people where they are, the intimate connection between faith and culture, the importance of popular piety--and makes clear how all are grounded in his deep love for Christ. Personal anecdotes dramatize his warm humanity and lively sense of humor. 
 Here in short is an intimate and revealing perspective on one of the most exciting and appealing religious figures of our time.

Pope Francis: Keys to His Thought

A meditation preached by Fr. Eric Nicolai at St. Aidan's parish in Toronto, on April 22, 2025.The nature of the Easter Octave is that it be filled with joy. This year it is mingled with a sorrow, and upheaval in which we feel orphaned, but also weighed down by the urgency of the moment. The Church really needs a shepherd. It needs its vicar. We are forlorn. Dic nobis Maria, quid vidisti in via? Tell us, Mary: say what thou didst see upon the way.A big concern had been who would remove the stone. We must nurture the optimism that is proper to Easter, and maintain it all our life.

Mary, What did You See on the Way? Maintain Optimism Always

Just in time for the Feast of St. Joseph on March 19th, don't miss this new title from Scepter, Prince, Patron, and Patriarch: the Litany of St. Joseph and the Dogma that Makes It Strong by Ian Mahood

Prince, Patron, and Patriarch

Doug gives advice on what to do when one spouse doesn’t want to work on improving their marriage. He also tackles listener questions on betrayal, forgiveness and unpacks 20 small gestures to show how much you care.

Small gestures to show you care

John Edwards joins Doug to share his work of introducing the person of Jesus Christ to the person in the pew. He shares his inspirational conversion from drugs and alcohol to now leading other men closer to Christ in the Catholic Church.   Resource mentioned: Just a Guy in the Pew <a href="https://justaguyinthepew.com/">https://justaguyinthepew.com/</a>

Becoming a man of God

A funeral homily for Mr. Peter Rebello at the church of St. Clement in Toronto on May 20, 2025. Peter died from Leukemia on May 13, the feast of our Lady of Fatima. He was 77. Music: Be not afraid by Bob Dufford with choir.org

Funeral Homily for Peter Rebello

Moms today have a lot on their plates, maybe more so than previous generations. This week's guest, Catholic Mom Coach Sterling Jaquith, shares simple tips and tricks to overcome that mommy overwhelm. Her advice comes not just from being a certified life coach but also from experiencing the overwhelm and burnout herself - and realizing there had to be a better way!

Ep. 23 Overcoming Overwhelm as a Mom (with Sterling Jaquith)

Dr. Mario Sacasa joins Doug to discuss the gift of marriage. They unpack the sacramental nature of marriage and the importance of emotional intimacy in marriage. Doug and Dr. Sacasa give advice to callers. <ul> <li>Patty - I need advice for my marriage. How can I be more emotionally intimate with my husband of 31 years?</li> <li>Maria - What about marriages without God as a foundation? How do I give advice to them?</li> <li>Shirley - Can you give us the tools to have a celibate and chaste relationship before marriage and after a divorce?</li> </ul> &nbsp; Resources: &nbsp; Marriage Unhindered <a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a> &nbsp; Happy Marriage for Life <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a> &nbsp; Catholic Therapists <a href="https://www.catholictherapists.com/">https://www.catholictherapists.com/</a>

The gift of marriage

What does it mean to be saved and redeemed? The Bible often reminds us that we are in need of the salvation and redemption which is offered to us in Christ. This unique book is an introduction to the rich theological field of soteriology, which examines profound insights contained in Sacred Scripture as well as a wealth of theological reflections present in the Church's Tradition. 
The book has chapters dedicated to salvation, redemption, as well to the mediation of Christ. The later chapters examine how Christ's mystery brings us salvation. This text gives special attention to Christ's Death and Resurrection, but also to how all of the life of Christ is a source of redemption. The book concludes with an analysis of how Christ's victory over sin and death is made operative in the daily life of the Christian.
Salvation Theology: An Introduction to Soteriology will be a helpful and formative resource for anyone interested in growing in knowledge about fundamental topics of the Christian faith.

Salvation Theology

In Love with the Church brings together four homilies of Saint Josemaría Escrivá, the founder of Opus Dei. These homilies contain magnificent reflections on the Church and on the layperson's role in the Church, written in Saint Josemaría's attractive and compelling style. This book offers the reader and opportunity to grow in love for the Church and to learn how to serve her more faithfully, guided by a saint whose own love for the Church was truly remarkable.

In Love with the Church

In this reflection, Fr. Peter Armenio, priest of Opus Dei, invites us to take time during the Easter season to ask God in our prayer: “What is it that you want me to contemplate in light of the Resurrection?” Fr. Peter explains that we will see that we are called to bring Jesus Christ into the world in a &quot;new way&quot;, especially through our joy— the joy that comes from making “Jesus Christ the center of our work, sufferings, and recreation.” “If you keep my commandments, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and remain in his love. ‘I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and your joy may be complete. This is my commandment: love one another as I love you’” (Jn 15:10-12). As we contemplate the “cloak of joy surrounding the mystery of the Resurrection,” we can ask God for a “conversion of interior life.” And, the joy that overflows from our interior lives will help to draw those around us to Jesus Christ. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

The Resurrection: Icon of Joy

Born at the turn of the twentieth century, St. Josemari´a Escriva´ spent his life as malleable clay in the Potter's hands. He took on a very visible leadership role as a priest and as the founder of Opus Dei, with a substantial collection of writings and recorded talks "revealing the personality, tone of voice, mannerisms, and spirit of the man."
In these pages, author Fr. John Henry Hanson explores the role of leader and coach that the "Saint of the Ordinary" lived while on earth and continues to live today, drawing practical lessons on everyday sanctity, including:

•Why we should treat great saints like Joan of Arc as role models, not historical anomalies
•How a healthy spiritual life requires both prayer and work in balance
•
Why recreation is important—and how to avoid laziness and dissipation

•How to recharge our spiritual batteries using the tools God provides
•
The importance of abandonment to God—giving and entrusting without restraint

•How God uses our persistent faults to drive us toward sainthood

Never one to mince words or refrain from action, St. Josemari´a coaches us in work and rest, in times of struggle and ease, through confusion and certainty. He is for all of us—men and women of today, living and working in the midst of the world. He is for us all a coach, a father, and an excellent teacher of the elevated, virtuous, and courageous life.

Coached by Josemaría Escrivá: Lessons in Discipleship

St John of Avila, proclaimed a doctor of the Church in October 2012, offers illuminating insights on the Holy Spirit in the collection of homilies first published by Scepter in 1959. Presented as sermons given around the feasts of Ascension and Pentecost, the saint speaks directly and to the point, yet is thoughtful and affectionate in his style. He proceeds in the form of a dialogue to present the Great Unknown. The sermons begin with a short introduction and then come to a particular point supported by Scripture texts, quotations from the Fathers, well-chosen illustrations, and his own original insights. 
 Many believers may find these feasts somewhat puzzling and obscure. St. John shows how they are among the greatest feasts in the Christian calendar and deserve to be better understood.

The Holy Spirit Within

As we begin the Advent Season, Fr. Luke Mata offers some thoughts on how we can use this time to prepare well for the birth of the Christ Child. Today, we can resolve to run forth to meet Christ.

Ep. 39 Annual Advent/Christmas Reflection with Fr. Luke Mata

Are these the tough years? What happens when married life becomes boring? What happens when a husband doesn&rsquo;t provide enough financial support for his wife? You be the therapist! Callers weigh in and Doug shares his advice on what to do in these situations. Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Sue - The couple in the first situation should make sure to have a date night every week. It&rsquo;s also a good thing for the couple to write a gratitude list every day. (18:32)</li> <li>Olivia - When things are so stressful and you need time alone, you should get up earlier together and spend time with God. (23:20)</li> <li>Michelle - Take a look at finances, and figure out why both are working. (25:19)</li> <li>Joanne - One of the greatest indicators of a successful marriage is for a man to part with his money and provide for his wife. (30:59)</li> <li>Elizabeth - Case 1: They just need to mix it up a little and connect to other people in similar life circumstances. Case 2: I would say that the wife needs to reach out to her husband's family members (36:32)</li> <li>David - Nothing is 50/50 when the priest announces the couple is one. (45:24)</li> </ul> Resources: Relevant Radio Dad&rsquo;s Pack <a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/merch/products/dads-pack">https://relevantradio.store/collections/merch/products/dads-pack</a> Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle <a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a>

Gratitude leads to a happy marriage

A meditation preached by Fr. Eric Nicolai at Cedarcrest Conference Centre in Belfountain, Ontario on September 25, 2025.Luke 8:4-15: With a large crowd gathering and people from every town finding their way to him, Jesus used this parable: ‘A sower went out to sow his seed.We are the crowd that the Lord is now addressing, as we see him now with eyes of faith. You see him as he speaks there in the Gospel.Music: Michael Lee of TorontoThumbnail: Jean-Francois Millet, The Sower, 1851.

Cultivate the Field that we are

First published in English in 1996 as Immersed in God, this 20th anniversary edition serves an anecdotal account of the life of St. Josemaria Escriva (1902-1975). Blessed Alvaro (1914-1994) was at the saint's side for almost 40 years as his confessor, and from 1976 to his death as the Prelate of Opus Dei, was the successor to St. Josemaria. Blessed Alvaro relates dozens of accounts of Saint Josemaria's apostolate, his service to the Church, and his personality. Many of these stories only came to light after his death, when letters and tributes poured into Rome from around the world.
These lively anecdotes are gathered in 13 chapters which form a mosaic of the life of St. Josemaria and provided thousands of readers around the world with a picture of the saint, just before publication of an official three volume biography, The Founder of Opus Dei, by Andres Vazquez de Prada.

40 Years With a Saint: Blessed Alvaro del Portillo

Are you having trouble making a decision or knowing what God's will is? This passage from Jacques Philippe's Searching for and Maintaining Peace will give you some helpful tips on making decisions when you feel restless.

Unrest in Decisions - Searching for and Maintaining Peace

On this episode of Marriage Unhindered, Matt Young joins Doug to discuss suicide prevention. &nbsp; Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Elizabeth - I had postpartum depression and I was feeling suicidal at the time. This was 20 years ago. (22:47)</li> <li>Jim - When I served in Vietnam, a soldier was reading a letter, and then immediately killed himself. It was because his girlfriend was breaking up with him. It's haunted me to his day. (26:38)</li> <li>Diane - My son passed away and there were many times I've thought about taking my life. I'm going to a Christian therapist. Sometimes I still think about doing it. (33:16)</li> <li>Sonya - I attempted suicide when I was 6 years old. My parents were fighting and my dad was beating my mother up. My older brother pushed me into bathroom to lock the door. I was slamming my head against bathtub faucet. I wanted to die, but God stopped me. (39:06)</li> </ul> &nbsp; Resources: &nbsp; If you or someone you know is contemplating suicide, call or text 988 &nbsp; American Foundation for Suicide Prevention <a href="https://afsp.org/">https://afsp.org/</a>

A Story of Hope

Courtney Brown joins Doug to discuss how to pass on the major themes of the Theology of the Body to junior high aged children. &nbsp; &nbsp; Resources: Ruah Woods Institute <a href="https://www.ruahwoodsinstitute.org/">https://www.ruahwoodsinstitute.org/</a>

Arming our Children with the Truth

Doug unpacks a letter by Alice Von Hildebrand form her book By Love Refined. In this letter she shares how physical intimacy can be beautifully spiritual. ·         A caller/s wife struggles with alcohol abuse and has PTSD. ·         Advice for a father whose daughter is going to move in with her boyfriend to save money. ·         A caller’s husband has just started taking care of his grandson who had a stroke at 5 months and can't talk.   Resources:   By Love Refined <a href="https://sophiainstitute.com/product/by-love-refined/?srsltid=AfmBOoopkhE5hPSRXa8RxY8asnvjlZu-3NqVPDDLXWvXLBPls3q25PbO">https://sophiainstitute.com/product/by-love-refined/?srsltid=AfmBOoopkhE5hPSRXa8RxY8asnvjlZu-3NqVPDDLXWvXLBPls3q25PbO</a>   Marriage Unhindered <a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a>   Happy Marriage for Life <a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>   Catholic Therapists <a href="https://www.catholictherapists.com/">https://www.catholictherapists.com/</a>   Catholic Psychotherapy Association <a href="https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/">https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/</a>

Physical intimacy can be beautifully spiritual

On this episode of the podcast we’re diving into classical education and how it aims to educate the whole person. William Perales, the Director of the University of Dallas’ <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="c-link" href="https://saintambrosecenter.udallas.edu/about">Saint Ambrose Center</a>, shares his passion and knowledge of classical education. Through the <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="c-link" href="https://catholiceducation.org/en/education/philosophy-of-education/five-essential-marks-of-catholic-schools.html">Five Essential Marks</a>, storytelling, and the development of the imagination, classical education helps foster the foundations of who we are as human beings and prepares young minds for a lifelong love of learning. The <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="c-link" href="https://saintambrosecenter.udallas.edu/about">Saint Ambrose Center</a> aims to help bring classical education to schools throughout the United States by providing professional development and consultation.

S4 Ep. 39 - Educating the Whole Person with William Perales

Doug is joined by Therapist Monica Hinderer to discuss addiction and substance abuse problems in marriage. Listeners call in with their questions and struggles ranging from spouses with addictions to sex, alcohol and drugs. Doug and Monica give keen insights to what can help in these troubling situations.

Addiction and Substance Abuse in Marriage

What does it truly mean to love others “to the end,” as Jesus did at the Last Supper? In this meditation, Fr. Luke Mata reflects on Holy Thursday as the moment Jesus reveals the full extent of divine love—through the washing of the apostles’ feet, the institution of the Eucharist, and the commandment to love as He loves. He emphasizes that this love is not abstract but radically practical, calling for humility, self-gift, forgiveness, and service in everyday relationships. The Eucharist becomes both the source and strength for this way of living, since such self-giving love is impossible on our own. Ultimately, Fr. Luke presents Jesus’ example as a “revolution of love” that begins in small, personal acts and has the power to transform the world.

Holy Thursday: A Revolution of Love

10-Day Devotion to the Holy Spirit - Day 10 | Beginning: and beginning again For the complete text of today’s reflection and for additional spiritual resources visit: <a href='http://stjosemaria.org/ten-day-devotion-holy-spirit/'>http://stjosemaria.org/ten-day-devotion-holy-spirit/</a> The prayers and reflections for this devotion are taken from the “Handbook of Prayers,” published by Midwest Theological Forum.This long standing custom of the Church in preparation for Pentecost is an opportunity to ask the Holy Spirit to strengthen our hearts and make firm resolutions for our interior lives. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

10-Day Devotion to the Holy Spirit | Day 10

What should a husband do when he discovers his wife is reading sexually explicit books? What should a wife do when her husband stops practicing the faith? Doug tackles these questions and more. Listener questions and comments: <ul> <li>Rose - Advice about annulments. Take it at one hour a day. (23:38)</li> <li>Mary Anne - I've been through an annulment. I spoke to a priest who said to focus on the one way that it had a bad effect on you. Focus on that and try to keep your and his dignity. Try not to be cruel. (26:35)</li> <li>Todd - I just got married. It&rsquo;s been great so far. what is the conversation that needs to happen when one of us is ready for children and the other isn&rsquo;t? (40:11)</li> <li>Tom - I have to comment on the guy that disagreed with you. If both spouses are making money, it should be combined and after the bills are payed then the left over should be split equally for the kids and things. (45:28)</li> </ul> Resources: Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle <a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a>

Faith & Fianances

Forgiving is no easy task: in fact, it may be the most difficult endeavor one can undertake. St. Josemar&iacute;a Escriv&aacute;, the founder of Opus Dei, said, &ldquo;I didn&rsquo;t need to learn how to forgive, because God has taught me how to love.&rdquo; Still, even this saint struggled with the trying task of forgiving. This collection of anecdotes from his life explores his experiences in offering and accepting forgiveness.
Life as a priest in the midst of the violent Spanish Civil War offered St. Josemar&iacute;a countless opportunities to practice forgiveness. Owing to an attitude of prayer, mortification, and total confidence in God, he was as immediate and resolute in forgiving in dramatic situations as he was in the ordinary circumstances of everyday life. He knew when a situation necessitated silence, and was always prompt in offering an apology when he found himself in the wrong. Readers will find themselves equally amazed and humbled by the gentle charity that contributed to Josemar&iacute;a&rsquo;s sainthood.
In addition to anecdotes from St. Josemar&iacute;a Escriv&aacute;'s life, this powerful introduction to forgiveness includes a biography of St. Josemar&iacute;a, an explanation of the message of Opus Dei, excerpts from Pope John Paul II at the canonization of St. Josemar&iacute;a and Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger (later Pope Benedict XVI) at the beatification of Josemar&iacute;a Escriv&aacute;, as well as resources for further information in print and online.&nbsp; &nbsp;

A Man Who Knew How to Forgive (audiobook)

The third book in the Douglings Adventures Series (for ages 9-12)
 The Douglas family travels to a wedding in the Colorado mountains, looking forward to a great celebration. But when a close family member is abducted, the eldest children suspect a shadowy figure who has been lurking in the darkness. With the help of their daring and enthusiastic new friend, St. Teresa of Avila, the children will work together to unveil the truth as they enter "The Interior Castle" and infiltrate the dark fortress of their enemy's very soul.

Cryptic Crusade

In this bonus episode, we talk with author Kevin Wells about his new book: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://michael_aquilina_scepterpublishers_org-dot-mmemails3.appspot.com/em_66GdZpNlTQLW6GcFqgrk?url=https%3A%2F%2Fscepterpublishers.org%2Fproducts%2Fpreorder-coached-by-the-cure&amp;key=9ad425d7fa52f69330a08be05c646f1f1b139b34">Coached by the Curé: Lessons in Shepherding with St. John Vianney</a>, He shares insights he gained from researching and writing this book, as well as advice for parents and priests alike!

Interview with Kevin Wells, author of Coached by the Cure

The Church celebrates Divine Mercy Sunday at the conclusion of the Easter Octave during which we are reminded to “be merciful, just as [our] Father is merciful” (Luke 6:36). In this podcast, Fr. Peter Armenio reflects on the mercy of God by sharing a deeper understanding of the Eucharist. He explains that Christ is the incarnation of mercy itself which is revealed to us through the true presence of Christ in the Eucharist. As we receive the Eucharist and allow Christ to dwell within us, we also receive the grace of the Holy Spirit which empowers us to show mercy toward those we encounter each day and inspires us to love with the heart of Christ. St. Josemaria explains: “Mercy is more than simply being compassionate. Mercy is the overflow of charity, which brings with it also an overflow of justice. Mercy means keeping one’s heart totally alive, throbbing in a way that is both human and divine, with a love that is strong, self-sacrificing and generous” (Friends of God, no. 232). [ <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/The-Incarnation-of-Mercy-Transcript.pdf'>Transcript</a> ] THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

The Incarnation of Mercy

Continuing our mini-series, “Passionately Loving the World”:  In this podcast, Fr. Eric Nicolai shares a reflection on the dangers of keeping our faith solely within the confines of our personal life rather than allowing it to permeate every aspect of our life–from the church, to the office, and among friends. Fr. Eric encourages us to cultivate authentic friendships through which we can carry out the work of evangelization, seeking to bring the light of Christ into every corner of our world.St. Josemaria explains: “We cannot lead a double life. We cannot be like schizophrenics, if we want to be Christians. There is only one life, made of flesh and spirit. And it is that life which has to become, in both body and soul, holy and filled with God: we discover the invisible God in the most visible and material things. There is no other way, my daughters and sons: either we learn to find Our Lord in ordinary, everyday life, or we shall never find him” (Conversations, no. 114).As you pause and reflect today, in what area of your life do you need to more intentionally share and reflect the light of Christ?<a href='https://stjosemaria.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Transcript-The-Dangers-of-a-Double-Life.pdf'>View Transcript</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/podcast/'>Visit Show Page</a> THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

The Dangers of a Double Life

10-Day Devotion to the Holy Spirit - Day 8 | The Holy Spirit: living according to him For the complete text of today’s reflection and for additional spiritual resources visit: <a href='http://stjosemaria.org/ten-day-devotion-holy-spirit/'>http://stjosemaria.org/ten-day-devotion-holy-spirit/</a> The prayers and reflections for this devotion are taken from the “Handbook of Prayers,” published by Midwest Theological Forum.This long standing custom of the Church in preparation for Pentecost is an opportunity to ask the Holy Spirit to strengthen our hearts and make firm resolutions for our interior lives. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>

10-Day Devotion to the Holy Spirit | Day 8

On this Feast of St. Joseph the Worker (May 1st), Fr. Peter Armenio explores how we can live like St. Joseph, following Christ amid the most mundane and ordinary circumstances of life. What you’ll hear: - How Joseph was central in the intellectual and social formation of Jesus - What Sacred Scripture and Tradition teaches about St. Joseph - How the lay vocation is perfectly illustrated by the life of Mary and Joseph THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! If you enjoy our weekly meditations, please consider helping us keep the St. Josemaria Institute Podcast ad-free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a rel="payment" href="https://stjosemaria.org/give/">Support the show</a>THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Let us know that our podcast is important to you:<ul><li>Share your favorite episodes with others and leave us a rating or review.</li><li>Stay connected with us on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/stjosemariainst/'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.instagram.com/stjosemariainst/'>Instagram</a>. </li><li>Subscribe to our weekly newsletter: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'>www.stjosemaria.org</a></li></ul>Also, if you enjoy the podcast, please consider helping us keep our episodes free and accessible for all our listeners: <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/give/'>Give today!</a> <a href='https://stjosemaria.org/subscribe/'> </a>